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What is the Ego?
The ego is the image we hold of ourselves, our core beliefs, relational patterns and perceptions which allow us to...
Narcissism is a state and experience in which the person, their body, needs, feelings, and thoughts only pertain to them and are fully real,...
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The child rejects true love as they believe they are self-defective due to parental rejection and abandonment. They grow up into People who...
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From the Brink
The void is developed through the failures in nurturing and attunement of external objects, limiting ego development and rupturing the ego-self axis. The child...
On the Border
The structure of the borderline is split, with one part unconscious and one part conscious. Induced guilt and bodily tension and breathing constrictions lead...
The Jungian Life
A lot of people who seek therapy hope the problem is not theirs; the real problem is their family of origin, partner, or other...
Ego Defences
The defences are there to protect the ego persona against undue stress and ward off pressure and anxiety.
The ID- the pleasure principle and the...
LATEST ARTICLES
Loyalty Bonds
In Transactional Analysis (TA), loyalty bonds (often referred to as Invisible Loyalties or Scripted Loyalties) are the powerful, often unconscious attachments we maintain to...
Narcissistic Essays
The concept of taking oneself as the love object is a perverted form of sexuality with its own psychic agency. If we consider the...
Narcisstic Transformation
The narc has a high degree of self-reference in all their interactions with others, with a heartfelt need to be loved and idealised. There...
Narcissistic Wounds
The narcissistic child has omnipotent, controlling and tyrannical fantasies of controlling his mother (object), which are part of normal development but need to be...
Unanswered Self
The infant of Mahler's differentiation subphase of separation-individuation, approx 4-9 months, is observably developed out of total bodily dependence, within a vaguely experienced...
Narcissism and Perversity
There is a tremendous loss of reality in perversion, an infantile solution for the wounded narc, employing disregard for their feeling of smallness and...
Broken Structures
Ego identity refers to a consistent sense of self and a shared set of essential character traits that others recognise. The concept of identity...
Belief and Imagination
Belief rests as a possibility, not a certainty, yet it produces an emotional state that goes with certainty, as one can't rid oneself of...
Being Seen : Emerging from Psychic Retreats
An essential aspect of narcissism is being seen as the centre of attention. Self-consciousness can become acute and anxious when a child loses the...























































