The hated child lives with Oedipal issues, with an ego full of deficits and is depleted, where resistance to the breakdown of pre-oedipal adjustment...
Through adverse parental and environmental influences, a child may not be permitted to grow according to their instinctual needs and potential. A parent wrapped...
Berne (1964) defined games as:
“A game is an ongoing series of complementary ulterior transactions progressing to a well-defined, predictable outcome. Descriptively, it is a...
The narcissist`s image is stable, unlike the Borderline (BPD) and not affected by any fears of abandonment. They are less self-defeating and destructive and...
One`s mother is psychologically and psychically unavailable; the child is left feeling unwanted and unloved and a belief they are unlovable. They don’t like...
A child’s primary anxiety is based on disintegration based on a fear of death, love and contact with reality. The Narcissistic (NPD) libido (self-object)...
Early on, the parents will supportively mirror the strivings of the child’s grandiose self and not threaten their idealization as parents, which is the...
Kohut believes certain portions of the mind are not available to conscious thought, which holds psychic phenomena such as wishes, memories, fantasies and prohibitions....
The terrible mother dominates the battle of wills with the child, which affect their political outlook and orientation. The self-loathing person tends to favour...
Undifferentiated units with inborn perceptive and behavioural patterns must evolve into internalised object relations or constellations of affect memory with compulsive and affective attributes....
The Dark Side of a Spiritual Awakening
We have all watched with enthusiasm and intrigue “Luke Skywalker “entering into the realms of a “New hope...
In Transactional Analysis (TA), loyalty bonds (often referred to as Invisible Loyalties or Scripted Loyalties) are the powerful, often unconscious attachments we maintain to...
The narcissistic child has omnipotent, controlling and tyrannical fantasies of controlling his mother (object), which are part of normal development but need to be...
The infant of Mahler's differentiation subphase of separation-individuation, approx 4-9 months, is observably developed out of total bodily dependence, within a vaguely experienced...
There is a tremendous loss of reality in perversion, an infantile solution for the wounded narc, employing disregard for their feeling of smallness and...
