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Narcissistic Wounds

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The narcissistic child has omnipotent, controlling and tyrannical fantasies of controlling his mother (object), which are part of normal development but need to be...

Unanswered Self

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The infant of Mahler's differentiation subphase of separation-individuation, approx 4-9 months, is observably developed out of total bodily dependence, within a vaguely experienced...

Narcissism and Perversity

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There is a tremendous loss of reality in perversion, an infantile solution for the wounded narc, employing disregard for their feeling of smallness and...

Broken Structures

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Ego identity refers to a consistent sense of self and a shared set of essential character traits that others recognise. The concept of identity...

Ego Ideal

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The ego ideal leads to primary narcissism, where the child is unable to give up the satisfaction and security once experienced. He is not...

Belief and Imagination

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Belief rests as a possibility, not a certainty, yet it produces an emotional state that goes with certainty, as one can't rid oneself of...

Being Seen : Emerging from Psychic Retreats

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An essential aspect of narcissism is being seen as the centre of attention. Self-consciousness can become acute and anxious when a child loses the...

Imposter Syndrome

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Identity is an all-encompassing sense of self, not fixed, handed down and developed unconsciously. Something shaped and determined, reflected in passion and behaviour, and...

Fantasy Bond

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The bond replaces emotional suffering, pain, abandonment and anxiety with a destructive self-limiting role and experience. Keeps one insulated, mechanical and detached from authentic...

Into the Darkest places

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People suffering from borderline states have experienced profound early relational trauma with primary caretakers /parents. They are continuously at odds with a sense of...