Belief and Imagination
Belief rests as a possibility, not a certainty, yet it produces an emotional state that goes with certainty, as one can't rid oneself of...
Being Seen : Emerging from Psychic Retreats
An essential aspect of narcissism is being seen as the centre of attention. Self-consciousness can become acute and anxious when a child loses the...
Imposter Syndrome
Identity is an all-encompassing sense of self, not fixed, handed down and developed unconsciously. Something shaped and determined, reflected in passion and behaviour, and...
Fantasy Bond
The bond replaces emotional suffering, pain, abandonment and anxiety with a destructive self-limiting role and experience. Keeps one insulated, mechanical and detached from authentic...
Into the Darkest places
People suffering from borderline states have experienced profound early relational trauma with primary caretakers /parents. They are continuously at odds with a sense of...
Going Mad to Stay Sane
The pain, despair and self-destructiveness are as loud a statement as possible to make and acknowledge the soul is under attack and in exile....
Narcissism to Individuation
The task of the self comes from the depth of the unconscious need to renounce any identification with the collective role and come to...
Delicious Abundance
Some parents have a vice-like grasp and hold of their children and force them into a pre-moulded image to fulfil their narcissist demands and...
Neurosis and Human Growth
Through adverse parental and environmental influences, a child may not be permitted to grow according to their instinctual needs and potential. A parent wrapped...
