Belief and Imagination
Belief rests as a possibility, not a certainty, yet it produces an emotional state that goes with certainty, as one can't rid oneself of...
Being Seen : Emerging from Psychic Retreats
An essential aspect of narcissism is being seen as the centre of attention. Self-consciousness can become acute and anxious when a child loses the...
Imposter Syndrome
Identity is an all-encompassing sense of self, not fixed, handed down and developed unconsciously. Something shaped and determined, reflected in passion and behaviour, and...
Fantasy Bond
The bond replaces emotional suffering, pain, abandonment and anxiety with a destructive self-limiting role and experience. Keeps one insulated, mechanical and detached from authentic...
15 Narcissistic Traits
Healthy narcissism is an essential aspect of mature self-esteem, where one can express authentic feelings, be assertive and impact others without incurring loss, punishment,...
The Problem with Therapy
Mind The Gap
The concept of “mind the gap “Is one underlying the transitional space between the client and therapist that is both conscious and...
Pathologies of the Mind
Narcissism has become such a persuasive psychotic trait that society is now deemed "Normal " or "Revered" as the general population seems incapable of...
Permission, Protection and Potency
They are collectively known as the 3 P`s in transactional analysis to set the stage for a practical therapeutic framework. If the therapeutic relationship...
Three Characters
The narcissist is formed by their relationship with primary objects (mother/father). Their parents can be too intrusive or rejecting, as failed attempts to separate...


































