Imposter Syndrome
Identity is an all-encompassing sense of self, not fixed, handed down and developed unconsciously. Something shaped and determined, reflected in passion and behaviour, and...
Into the Darkest places
People suffering from borderline states have experienced profound early relational trauma with primary caretakers /parents. They are continuously at odds with a sense of...
Going Mad to Stay Sane
The pain, despair and self-destructiveness are as loud a statement as possible to make and acknowledge the soul is under attack and in exile....
Narcissism to Individuation
The task of the self comes from the depth of the unconscious need to renounce any identification with the collective role and come to...
10 signs of a codependent relationship
A codependent relationship usually starts with an exciting, thrilling love bombing phase, where one partner (rescuer) feels idealised and loved, finally finding their soul...
Pathologies of the Mind
Narcissism has become such a persuasive psychotic trait that society is now deemed "Normal " or "Revered" as the general population seems incapable of...
Three Characters
The narcissist is formed by their relationship with primary objects (mother/father). Their parents can be too intrusive or rejecting, as failed attempts to separate...
The Central Ego
We are all object-related by our own nature, the self in relation to the other and the relationship between. The structure for achieving self-expression...
Object Relations – Part 2
Because of distortion in the ego structure and functions, the borderline patient manifests a severely aggressive transference with acting out reactions (Ego weakness). They...
