The Tough kid
One`s mother is psychologically and psychically unavailable; the child is left feeling unwanted and unloved and a belief they are unlovable. They don’t like...
Disturbance
The homosexual man is attracted to men of power and strength (physique), the unconscious desire to enslave young men and make them helpless....
The Basic Lie
Basic
lie
The child rejects true love as they believe they are self-defective due to parental rejection and abandonment. They grow up into People who...
Analysis of Self (Part 2)
The Child sees others with narcissistic mental energy and experiences them narcissistically as self-objects. I am perfect, you are perfect, but I am part...
Slings and Arrows Â
The disappointment in object love led to the withdrawal of interest (libido)from the world and reinvested into the self and self-esteem; normal self-love stays...
Narcissism and Transformation
The Narc is embodied with Intense envy, with no genuine feelings of sadness/mourning combined with resentment and anger with revengeful wishes. There is no...
Love Relations (Kernberg, 2000)
We start to explore kernberg’s ideas around the concept of Erotic desires being a sexual merger and symbolic fusion between the child and mother....
Radical Psyche
Children learn to hide Oppression by shrouding their consequences with shame and secrecy, thereby enforcing establishment values and creating mystery or deceit. The child...
Character Traits
The neurotic character has access and comfort to who they are but is plagued by issues in the arena of love and sex, where...
The Real Self
The true Self is under siege when the mother fears separation due to impaired self, wanting to maintain dependency to sustain equilibrium. The mother...






























