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Ego Ideal
The ego ideal leads to primary narcissism, where the child is unable to give up the satisfaction and security once experienced. He is not...
Belief and Imagination
Belief rests as a possibility, not a certainty, yet it produces an emotional state that goes with certainty, as one can't rid oneself of...
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Codependency and why We rescue
In this episode, Susan Guner and Kevin Martin explore the social perceptions of co-dependency and the need to rescue others from their suffering. We...
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Loyalty Bonds
In Transactional Analysis (TA), loyalty bonds (often referred to as Invisible Loyalties or Scripted Loyalties) are the powerful, often unconscious attachments we maintain to...
Narcissistic Essays
The concept of taking oneself as the love object is a perverted form of sexuality with its own psychic agency. If we consider the...
Narcisstic Transformation
The narc has a high degree of self-reference in all their interactions with others, with a heartfelt need to be loved and idealised. There...
Narcissistic Wounds
The narcissistic child has omnipotent, controlling and tyrannical fantasies of controlling his mother (object), which are part of normal development but need to be...
Unanswered Self
The infant of Mahler's differentiation subphase of separation-individuation, approx 4-9 months, is observably developed out of total bodily dependence, within a vaguely experienced...
Narcissism and Perversity
There is a tremendous loss of reality in perversion, an infantile solution for the wounded narc, employing disregard for their feeling of smallness and...
Broken Structures
Ego identity refers to a consistent sense of self and a shared set of essential character traits that others recognise. The concept of identity...
Belief and Imagination
Belief rests as a possibility, not a certainty, yet it produces an emotional state that goes with certainty, as one can't rid oneself of...
Being Seen : Emerging from Psychic Retreats
An essential aspect of narcissism is being seen as the centre of attention. Self-consciousness can become acute and anxious when a child loses the...






































