The Neurotic mind
The neurotic works with a certain rigidity when deviating from cultural norms and patterns, with deep mistrust and suspicion of anything new and strange....
Neurotics Conflicts
Neurotic Conflicts are often connected to convictions, beliefs and moral values with a presupposition we have developed ourselves. Once we recognise a conflict, we...
Swamplands
The split, the discrepancy between what we long for and what we suppose are limitations of Western imagination, the day we discover and grieve...
Human Disconnect
Childhood is a hostage situation, where either child has no control over the way our caregivers parent us or fail to. Some parents have...
Emotional Plague
Three levels of operation
Superficial - polite, civil and accommodatingMiddle layer - destructive urges and impulses - responsibilityThe biological core - Love and hatred -...
Empath and Recovery
Reduce the need to please
Two motivations primarily based on fear
Fear of being unloved - to be or not be of significance or worth,...
Separation Anxiety
During the symbiotic phase, the child has a cognitive experience of “oneness”, where the mother gratifies the child's needs, unaware of the mother being...
Individuation
The mother is only interested in pre-oedipal infants for narcissist supply creating adult children with an infantilised ego. The mother will withdraw libido from...
Core Wounds -Schreiber
The fundamental core injuries are maintained via varied defences and behaviours as a relationship problem needs connection with a therapeutic bond. One needs to...
