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The first stage of female and male development is that of psychic unity characterised by the symbol of the uroboric serpent, forming a closed...
The label people pleasing may be one worn like a badge of honour, a flattering self-description and an attribute admired by members of society....
The disappointment in object love led to the withdrawal of interest (libido)from the world and reinvested into the self and self-esteem; normal self-love stays...
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The Central Ego
We are all object-related by our own nature, the self in relation to the other and the relationship between. The structure for achieving self-expression...
Transcendental Function
The Transcendental function (TF) bridges the conscious and unconscious. The TF is the land of uncertainty, and disorientation, buffeted by forces of the unconscious....
Object Relations Theory
Many clients present good impulse control in all areas but one, a counterpart of the psyche, with severe pathology and constant switching. Switching between...
The Nightgown
The fusional complex manifests out of an underlying field and activation point in the fusion field. It seems connection has a quality of psychic...
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Loyalty Bonds
In Transactional Analysis (TA), loyalty bonds (often referred to as Invisible Loyalties or Scripted Loyalties) are the powerful, often unconscious attachments we maintain to...
Narcissistic Essays
The concept of taking oneself as the love object is a perverted form of sexuality with its own psychic agency. If we consider the...
Narcisstic Transformation
The narc has a high degree of self-reference in all their interactions with others, with a heartfelt need to be loved and idealised. There...
Narcissistic Wounds
The narcissistic child has omnipotent, controlling and tyrannical fantasies of controlling his mother (object), which are part of normal development but need to be...
Unanswered Self
The infant of Mahler's differentiation subphase of separation-individuation, approx 4-9 months, is observably developed out of total bodily dependence, within a vaguely experienced...
Narcissism and Perversity
There is a tremendous loss of reality in perversion, an infantile solution for the wounded narc, employing disregard for their feeling of smallness and...
Broken Structures
Ego identity refers to a consistent sense of self and a shared set of essential character traits that others recognise. The concept of identity...
Belief and Imagination
Belief rests as a possibility, not a certainty, yet it produces an emotional state that goes with certainty, as one can't rid oneself of...
Being Seen : Emerging from Psychic Retreats
An essential aspect of narcissism is being seen as the centre of attention. Self-consciousness can become acute and anxious when a child loses the...























































