Emotional Plague
Three levels of operation
Superficial - polite, civil and accommodatingMiddle layer - destructive urges and impulses - responsibilityThe biological core - Love and hatred - must pass through...
Mask or No Mask
I wanted to expand on my thoughts regarding the present circumstances we have been forced to endure, comprehend, and process. For somebody who has been embarking and integrating their true self with...
Terror, Love, and Brainwashing
Totalism - all-encompassing nature of the beast, blocking out all alternate relationships or beliefs, locking daylight out of the picture. An “ism” is a total overview or ideology pretending to have found...
The Terrible Mother
The mother complexes are a threatening element to the child`s development and disturb the child’s instincts, creating fantasies and subjective reality. The husband becomes a unit of procreation and gives birth to...
I hate you, don’t leave me
Differentiation phase (5-8 months) Social smiling begins and ends with stranger anxiety when presented with an unfamiliar in environment. This is unfavourable. The child splits negative and positive emotions to cope...
Culture of Narcissism
The inverted narc projects onto the actual narcissist through the very primitive projective identification ego defence. An innate primal fear of disintegration (psychological death) of the immature ego, living within the instinctual...
Ego Defences
The defences are there to protect the ego persona against undue stress and ward off pressure and anxiety.
The ID- the pleasure principle and the satisfaction of bodily...
Malignant Narcissism
The narcissist`s image is stable, unlike the Borderline (BPD) and not affected by any fears of abandonment. They are less self-defeating and destructive and proud of their possessions and accomplishments. They hold...
People Pleasing
The label people pleasing may be one worn like a badge of honour, a flattering self-description and an attribute admired by members of society. However, one can be addicted to the approval of others...