The Basic Lie
Basic
lie
The child rejects true love as they believe they are self-defective due to parental rejection and abandonment. They grow up into People who...
Chemical Wedding
The Transmutation process attempts to release and redeem a supreme value from its bondage in the base matter, the physical world. The base matter...
Reparative Body Work
Short-term dynamic psychotherapy (STDP) is designed to create intrapsychic crisis leading to psychic disequilibrium, followed by narrative construction.
The triangle of persons gives a new...
Analysis of Self (Part 2)
The Child sees others with narcissistic mental energy and experiences them narcissistically as self-objects. I am perfect, you are perfect, but I am part...
Individuation
The mother is only interested in pre-oedipal infants for narcissist supply creating adult children with an infantilised ego. The mother will withdraw libido from...
People Pleasers
Core damage or narc injury is at the centre of becoming a people pleaser, where all the spikes will be compromised. They need solid...
Slings and Arrows Â
The disappointment in object love led to the withdrawal of interest (libido)from the world and reinvested into the self and self-esteem; normal self-love stays...
Transactional Analysis
Transactional analysis is social psychology and therapeutic approach to improve communication and relations. The approach outlines our personal development and sense of self, how...
Narcissism and Transformation
The Narc is embodied with Intense envy, with no genuine feelings of sadness/mourning combined with resentment and anger with revengeful wishes. There is no...
Love Relations (Kernberg, 2000)
We start to explore kernberg’s ideas around the concept of Erotic desires being a sexual merger and symbolic fusion between the child and mother....



























