Individuation
The mother is only interested in pre-oedipal infants for narcissist supply creating adult children with an infantilised ego. The mother will withdraw libido from...
Slings and Arrows
The disappointment in object love led to the withdrawal of interest (libido)from the world and reinvested into the self and self-esteem; normal self-love stays...
Transactional Analysis
Transactional analysis is social psychology and therapeutic approach to improve communication and relations. The approach outlines our personal development and sense of self, how...
Narcissism and Transformation
The Narc is embodied with Intense envy, with no genuine feelings of sadness/mourning combined with resentment and anger with revengeful wishes. There is no...
Love Relations (Kernberg, 2000)
We start to explore kernberg’s ideas around the concept of Erotic desires being a sexual merger and symbolic fusion between the child and mother....
Fire in the Stone
The tension of opposites animates the individuation process, where the ego is no longer the centre of the personality. The person can embrace the...
Radical Psyche
Children learn to hide Oppression by shrouding their consequences with shame and secrecy, thereby enforcing establishment values and creating mystery or deceit. The child...
Character Traits
The neurotic character has access and comfort to who they are but is plagued by issues in the arena of love and sex, where...
Journey From Innocence
The Innocent
The innocent trusts life, ourselves and others unconditionally. The part of us that keeps the faith. Expects to be cared for totally...
Pregnant Darkness
The period when Ego consciousness moves towards the darkness and conflict (nigredo), facing the devilish energies of fear, addiction, mania and inner criticism. Devils...
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Narcissistic Wounds
The narcissistic child has omnipotent, controlling and tyrannical fantasies of controlling his mother (object), which are part of normal development but need to be...
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Character Analysis
Very few clients can accurately analyse at the onset of therapy, as the threat of ego fragmentation makes analysis hard. The neurotic character does...
Restoration of the Self
Early on, the parents will supportively mirror the strivings of the child’s grandiose self and not threaten their idealization as parents, which is the...
Separation Anxiety
During the symbiotic phase, the child has a cognitive experience of “oneness”, where the mother gratifies the child's needs, unaware of the mother being...
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The mother is only interested in pre-oedipal infants for narcissist supply creating adult children with an infantilised ego. The mother will withdraw libido from...
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The Basic Lie
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The child rejects true love as they believe they are self-defective due to parental rejection and abandonment. They grow up into People who...
